Author: conradivan

Wonderer. Dreamer. Wanderer. Fulfiller.

Habits Of The Unsuccessful (Part 2 of 2)

Please read the first part of the article.

 

Continuation:

 

They Give Up Easily

Successful people treat failures as stepping stones to success. Incompetent ones call it quits upon recognizing the first signs of failure.

At first, they may be excited to start an endeavor. But then they lose interest fairly quickly, especially when they encounter errors.

Then they go & search for a new one. Same story & same results. Incompetent people don’t have the persistence to go on and fulfill their dreams.

They Try to Bring Others Down To Their Level

Incompetent people envy other successful individuals. Instead of working hard to be like them, these incompetent ones spread rumors and try every dirty trick to bring them down.

They could’ve asked these successful ones nicely. But no, they’re too proud. They don’t want to ask advice. Moreover, they’re too negative to accomplish anything.

They Waste Their Time

These are the people who do not have the idea what to do next. They may just be contented on eating, getting drunk, watching TV, or worse, staring at the blank wall with no thoughts whatsoever to improve their lives.

It’s perfectly fine to enjoy once in a while. But time should be managed efficiently in order to succeed. There should be a proper balance between work & pleasure.

They Take the Easy Way Out

If there are two roads to choose from, incompetent people would choose the wider road with less rewards than the narrower road with much better rewards at the end.

They don’t want any suffering or hardship. They want a good life. What these people don’t know is that what you reap is what you sow. Efforts & action will not go unnoticed.

If only they would be willing to sacrifice a little, they would be much better off.

Now what successful people do

Successful people made it through trials & error. They never give up. They are willing to do everything necessary to achieve what they aspire for in life.

 

— end —

Advertisements

Habits Of The Unsuccessful (Part 1 of 2)

The big difference

The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is, successful people do what other people won’t do. If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage yourself in these deadly habits of the unsuccessful and incompetent people do.

Habits of the unsuccessful and incompetent:

They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things

Yes. They see problems in EVERY opportunity. These people complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ruining their plans for the day. Not to mention that they blame the wind for ruining their hair.

They think that everyone is against them. They see the problems but never the solutions. Every little bit of difficulty is exaggerated to the point of tragedy. Failures often regarded as catastrophes.

Easily they become discouraged instead of learning from their mistakes. These are the kind of people who are afraid to come out of their comfort zone. As a result, they never seem to move forward.

They Usually Act Before They Think

They move based on instinct or impulse. If they see something they like, they buy at once without any second thought. Then they see something better. They regret & curse for not able to take advantage of the bargain.

Then they spend & spend again until nothing’s left. They don’t think about the future. What they’re after is the pleasure they will experience at present. They don’t think about the consequences. Those who engage in unsafe sex, criminality, and the like are included in this group.

They Talk Much More Than They Listen

They want to be the star of the show. So they always engage in talks that would make them heroes, even to the point of lying. Oftentimes they are not aware that what they’re saying is not sensible anymore.

When other people advise them, they close their ears because they’re too proud to admit their mistakes. In their mind they’re always correct. They reject suggestions because that will make them feel inferior.

 

(TO BE CONTINUED)

Waking up to Improve Personal Life (Part 2 of 2)

Do not dare to miss the first part here.

 

Continuation:

 

The formula to use to put people in trance-like states is the Hypnotherapy. The person is sort of sleeping. In some instances, a patient may be highly aware. It depends on the person.

The design of the therapeutic tactic is to bring you to relaxation whilst altering the conscious mind. We all have the ability to induce hypnotherapy.

We can do this through meditation

When we meditate, we go into a deep focused state of mind, which usually takes us to responsive ideas or images. We can learn to control the mind, yet when a hypnotherapy process takes place, only the person has the right to control his/her mind.

Hypnotherapy is designed to teach one how to master his/her state of mind, including awareness. The goal is to build faith, as well as a good attitude toward life.

Our memory

Each time something happens to us, we develop a different attitude or behavior. Each time this occurs, our emotional responds and physical attaches to the memory.

This memory is often repeated. Sometimes we develop unhealthy and inappropriate behaviors and attitudes when something happens to us. We develop bad habits that hold us back.

A therapist can work with you to re-direct your way of thinking, actions, etc to start thinking positive. You will acquire healthier ways to handle problems.

During the trance, you will feel relaxed. You will also feel awaken to new ideas. As you mind wakens, you will be willing to participate in new and healthier ideas. Before you participate in hypnosis however, make sure that you consult with a qualified doctor and psychiatrist.

The hypnosis

Hypnosis can intensify some symptoms, especially when inappropriate diagnoses are made. If you have mental complications, such as Multiple Personality Disorder, (MPD), currently noted as Disassociate Identity Disorder, (DID), then I recommend you avoid hypnosis.

These people self-induce trance-like states and it could cause serious complications if you allow someone unqualified to hypnotize you.

 

— end —

Waking up to Improve Personal Life (Part 1 of 2)

Wake up and improve

When life gets us down

We all have responsibilities and obligations to accomplish in life. Sometimes life gets us down when demands and obstacles get in our way. Most of the time, it seems as though life is about other people.

We often wonder how much of our life is truly your own? When life gets you down, you have to take a step back to look over the areas that cause you stress.

Wouldn’t it be fantastic if you were doing what your loved? Perhaps you can acquire assertive skills. Do you need to build your self-esteem and do you hang around positive influences?

Do you live to produce new ideas that help you to improve your personal life? Are you developing great relationships?

The hypnotherapy

If you have issues or problems with improving your life, perhaps you can visit a therapist or hypnotherapist. These questions all lead up to improving personal life.

For this reason, if you need help you may want to seek advice of professionals. A therapist can help you deal with the problems you may have.

Some of us have hidden keys that lead us to success. Inside the hidden messages are keys that open the door that helps one to deal with life changes and challenges, which ordinarily discourages one from taking the right course in life.

How does hypnotherapy work?

Hypnotherapy assists one with dealing with many life discouragements by helping us to find the hidden notes the mind. Inside the mind, you have many natural elements that help you to lose weight, quite smoking, manage pain, etc.

You have the ability to build self-esteem, confidence, etc as well as counseling yourself to live happier. Hypnotherapy will also help you grow in your personal relationships. The therapeutic method will help you to balance and to live one day at a time.

 

Continue reading:

Waking up to Improve Personal Life (Part 2 of 2)

Ways To Take Control (Part 2 of 2)

Do not miss out the first part. Please read here.

 

Continuation:

 

Squash the “ANTs

In his book “Change Your Brain, Change Your Life,” Dr. Daniel Amen talks about “ANTs” – Automatic Negative Thoughts. These are the bad thoughts that are usually reactionary.

Like “Those people are laughing, they must be talking about me,” or “The boss wants to see me? It must be bad!” When you notice these thoughts, realize that they are nothing more than ANTs and squash them!

Practice Loving, Touching & Squeezing (Your Friends and Family)

You don’t have to be an expert to know the benefits of a good hug. Positive physical contact with friends, loved ones, and even pets, is an instant pick-me-up.

One research study on this subject had a waitress touch some of her customers on the arm as she handed them their checks. She received higher tips from these customers than from the ones she didn’t touch!

Increase Your Social Activity

By increasing social activity, you decrease loneliness. Surround yourself with healthy, happy people, and their positive energy will affect you in a positive way!

Volunteer for an Organization, or Help another Person

Everyone feels good after helping. You can volunteer your time, your money, or your resources. The more positive energy you put out into the world, the more you will receive in return.

Use Pattern Interrupts to Combat Rumination

If you find yourself ruminating, a great way to stop it is to interrupt the pattern and force yourself to do something completely different. Rumination is like hyper-focus on something negative.

It’s never productive, because it’s not rational or solution-oriented, it’s just excessive worry. Try changing your physical environment – go for a walk or sit outside. You could also call a friend, pick up a book, or turn on some music.

Few things to ponder

When it comes to the corporate world, protocol is pretty much the religion. To know the things needed to do are the basics of productivity. Remember that interaction and having a steady mind makes up the entire thing to true productivity.

There are those who seem to work well even under pressure, but they’re uncommon ones and we are human and imperfect. To get these little things like stress under our skins won’t solve our problems.

Sometimes it takes a bit of courage to admit that we’re turning to be workaholics than tell ourselves that we’re not doing our best.

 

— end —